fall seven time stand up eight ??

every People in this earth made mistakes... 

each of that mistake judge by people around us... and lead an impression towards our self... 

so what  we have to do is not only doing nothing about it...

i know that we can't jump into the past and make thing go perfectly as we wanted...

also we know that past never can be fixed...

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so what exactly we have to do is?

IMPROVE our self.....

i gave u a situation.... this is about our behavior... 

especially negative behavior that i want to focus on... 

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i been so excited to take a picture with my friend and he/she was actually opposite gender...

then my other friend really ashamed for what ive done because i also drag them to take a picture

then things end ups with they leaving me with that friend which i think their action really immature.. 

i mean come on, that only a picture you supposed to be more flexible or spoting with your friend right?

at least if you wanna leave just say hey lets go home...... and say good bye right?

what i supposed to do? am i right if i put all the blame to my friend and give them my hatred?

the answer was no...

as u know friend always forgive each other right....

 but i dont want to be in that level only... i came out with i promised to my self i never gonna do thing without thinking about others feeling .... that was my experience .... 

thanks god to give me such lessons and moral value....

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not only my self i also want to tell my observation about my surrounding..

my friend was always late go class, absent and copying others assignment...

at the beginning people still can accept what she/he was doing... but by time that situation repeated

then people start to judge and think that was her/his habits..

they start to hated her/him and when somebody start to hate what happen next?

they start to hate her/his close friend, family, even people that same state with her/him...

so actually,,,,

we are gifted with brain right? we dont need to be advice like a child ... 

from people rumors we can tell what  we had to improved .....

maybe they not close enough with us so they dont have a guts to give us their opinion..

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when you fall down don't blame others... but IMPROVE your self.. 

because people that love blamed on others never want to improve her/him self

don't easily  judge people because people can change...........

p/s: Love The Power of ImProvemenT